I'll be posting an op-ed piece here soon. But for now, here is a poem from my collection, Gordian Butterflies. Best to all!
Owl
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Fugitives
hurt are we,
troublesome,
our guilt dirty steak knives
that slew sacred cows.
unseen are we,
a battle over Andromeda,
mischievous in nooks
of faint mausoleums.
no preacher freed us,
no Sappho or Sartre,
no Buddha-rung gong
rippling our revival--
no crucifix,
no lysergic diethylamide,
no death or exodus
or creed--
we just saw.
exhumed ourselves,
swept off the webs
of skyscrapers
and cell phones,
washed off the dirt
of What-Must.
we looked at a world
beyond stress-chewed faces
and saw it was good.
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Monday, December 31, 2018
Wednesday, October 31, 2018
Ethics Versus Fear
Ethics Or Fear
An ethic is a belief system founded in right and
wrong, whether concerning conduct or mindset.
Colloquially it is based in the heart, a nurturing soil of sentiment, reason,
and spirit. Morality can be willfully
broken or blind, in which case it ceases to be ethical. On the other hand, critical thinking can
merge with passion and, importantly, honesty, to comprehend life with agape and
awe. Einstein spoke to this confluence
of intrapsychic forces when he wrote, "The most beautiful thing we can
experience is the mysterious. It is the
source of all true art and science."
In the 2016 election, two million more voters
chose Clinton than Trump. In effect,
they were voting for equality, a concept rationally argued by the
Founders. Equality has had a recent surge, rippling the world consciousness. The #MeToo Movement exemplifies this incipient transformation. So does the quest for LGBTQ rights. In the
second most populous country in the world, India, gay sex was recently decriminalized. All this is huge. Massive social protests based on benevolent
philosophies are major players today. After several millennia of relative stagnation, civilization has been rocked by Enlightenment ideals, a keystone being women's suffrage, achieved in the US in
1920.
Central to this ethical ferment is a profound and
widespread sense of empathy. Indeed,
caring and cooperation are common across the animal kingdom, having a strong
basis in natural selection. In humans,
empathy often combines with a spiritual element, accessed through religion,
meditation, or a primal awakening to the majesty of nature. Such feelings and attitudes exist across all cultures. Combined
with principled government, they establish norms of reason, based on
dignity, respect, and hale stewardship of the planet Earth.
And yet there is another way to govern: Fear. When President Trump spoke
in his inaugural speech of ending "American carnage," he framed
reality as a brutal us-vs-them where 'them' is the side of evil. Life is an arena, Trumpism vs evil, where he and his followers must win at all costs.
If this seems like the opposite of the truth, pure gaslighting, that's the point. Fear overrides rationality. Everyone gets in line because they are afraid that if they don't, they will suffer a horrible fate.
For a fear-based society under Trump, Einstein's quote above gets degraded into, 'The most beautiful thing we can experience is our leader. He is the source of all reassurance and faith." This kind of God King government is already in place in countries where giant tapestries, murals and statues of the dictator take up a good amount of public space.
Ethical governance opens the mind. Fear-chained governance closes it. The cost of wearing such stress-sewn blinders
is not only the vitiation of reason. It also undercuts a nation's ability to adapt in a complex, changing
world.
As ice sheets melt, as mass
extinction proceeds, as Texas-sized garbage patches gyre in the oceans, as
catastrophic fire and storm punish our failure to admit the insights of
science, our mendacious president fixates on establishing a
mythologized White culture.
At this point in the history of human civilization, it looks like we do have a kind of Manichean choice. We will either descend into reality-denying dictatorship, or soar on a growing collective consciousness to embrace miracle, reason and compassion.
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Friday, August 17, 2018
The Beauty
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Why does the world have to be so beautiful? It makes the cruelty so much harder to take.
--Andreas Reddington.
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Why does the world have to be so beautiful? It makes the cruelty so much harder to take.
--Andreas Reddington.
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Monday, July 23, 2018
A Dangerous 'What If'
Some pundits in the national liberal media are getting a bit closer to the view I have espoused for a long time: that Trump's followers subconsciously crave a dictator who pushes white nationalism (hence their impervious loyalty). See, for instance, Richard Cohen's latest op-ed:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/why-people-like-trump/2018/07/23/36514540-8ea2-11e8-bcd5-9d911c784c38_story.html
However, the national pundits are still missing some crucial psychological dynamics. Below is an op-ed I wrote. It was rejected by the largest newspaper in my state because, in the words of the Editor:
I generally avoid pieces that attempt make psychological diagnoses or analysis of people. That's something I feel only a person's personal counselor can do.
I think this is wrongheaded. It mistakes a psychological theory for a diagnosis. Theory is subject to both reinforcing and negating evidence.
Anyway, here is my op-ed. Thanks for your time.
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A Dangerous 'What If'
A Dangerous 'What If'
In mainstream media, political leaders and
followers are usually viewed as at least somewhat privy to their own
motivations. The voyage of democracy
hangs its sail on the competency of voters, those who steer their own fate and,
together, the course of the country. It
is a noble ethos, grounded in the autonomy of humanism. In regard to enlightened liberty, reflective
decision-making is vital.
However, there is another side. Enter the field of psychology. We humans can be subconsciously driven. Marketers rely on this, knowing that what
people say, or even think they believe, is often different than the truth. In the mental health professions, it is taken
for granted that the mind can fool itself.
Denial.
Compartmentalization.
Projection. We don't like to
admit it, but the icon of a deliberate thinker
is only part of a much larger picture, one in which our reason often
bows to murky or intangible forces.
I want to consider what some would consider an
outrageous if. Namely, what if both
Donald Trump and his followers are driven by motives they can't see? We live in pivotal and perilous times, ones
that are also mystifying to many, and there is a lot a stake. It seems prudent to take at least a moment to
ponder the full potential of human frailty, and its grave cost.
Although many have called Trump inconsistent, he
has pushed a steady theme of white nationalism.
It hardly seems necessary to justify this anymore. It is evident in his rhetoric, which is laced
with dog whistles, many of them not so insinuative. The MAGA motto is brilliant in this context
as a subliminal ploy. What if Trump is
fueled by a powerful desire to become a dictator, a cynosure of infinite
adulation, and white nationalism is his ticket?
And what if his hardcore followers have a corresponding wish, to dwell
in a police state that revives and secures a nostalgic white patriarchy?
It would follow then that Trump--who has been
described as a narcissist in an anthology co-authored by over two dozen
experts--would push a racist agenda to increase his gratification. Many commentators have noted that Trump
fishes about for ways to push the edge, testing to see what coaxes his
base. A feedback loop emerges between
orator and constituency. Trump
titillates a deep-seated need and vice versa.
It is a loop in which neither player knows (and so can not admit) what
drives them, even as they are pulled into a closer orbit, step by step. If this is what is happening, the taboo
against openly racist views is itself under assault in our country, and subject
to grievous and constant decline.
It would be wonderful, frankly, if all this wrong;
if Trump has no implacable desire to be a dictator; if his millions of fans are
not anchored by psychic chains to white nationalism. Hopefully there is no mutual seduction going
on. However, Trump has already declared
that he can shoot someone in the street and not lose loyalty. I won't enumerate the abundance of rude and
vicious things he has said, attacking a wide range of previously untouchable
targets. He lies openly and copiously at
rallies. His fans don't flinch.
The next test will be the Chinese tariffs. If Trump's base suffers monetarily, yet still
backs him 100%, it is another indication of complete trust, as in an adored father
figure. The 'outrageous if' gains force
the more evidence accrues to support it.
On the other hand, a counterexample would undermine it. So far, to my mind, no such counterexample
exists.
As a final caveat, research tells us that
ignorance is smart. The difference
between ignorance and awareness is not intellect. It is how intellect is employed. Denial is not only strong, but superbly
deflective. Taking a psychological
perspective adds to a sense that things are far worse than generally thought. On the other hand, facing the darkest
alternative could be galvanizing, and allows for the best, strongest defense of
democracy.
OWL
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Thursday, May 31, 2018
Greed Doesn't Have To Win
In the small, rural town where I live, there are
two of us who protest Trump regularly.
Twice a week me and my friend Sid, who is in his eighties, stand with our
signs for an hour. This is a year-round
thing. Our goal this last winter was to stand
unless the temperature dropped below zero degrees Fahrenheit. Although I did pretty well at braving the cold,
Sid did better. He would go out on days
that I wouldn't. When I was there, I
marveled at his hyperborean stamina. He
wore nothing but layers of old sweat pants and sweaters, and one not-so-thick
worn coat. I, on the other hand, always
had a puffy parka.
In the 'off season' especially, when tourists
aren't around, we have time to reflect and converse. We go
back and forth on political follies, but also deeper questions of ethics and
life. Much of it, of course, revolves
around the Trump phenomenon. However, we
make sure to remind ourselves that the United States had been descending before
the election of the unconscionable bastard.
This doesn't mean his rise wasn't seismic, a sudden trench on a slippery
slope. Still it is crucial to acknowledge the lineage of corruption, brought on by decades of policies that fed money to the
rich while taking from everyone else. The
effect was a slow bleed, one that amassed greater and greater malfeasance, delivered in a thousand cruel cuts. Painful cuts
to social services for the majority, lucrative cuts on taxes for the rich and
the corporations. In the 1960's the
wealth curve was fair. The middle class
thrived. Since then, it has only become
more and more lopsided. By the time Trump
arrived, it was long past the point of grotesque. He rode this disparity like a wave.
So, Trump is not the origin. Nor is he the end. Standing at Flatiron Corner with my anti-Trump sign ("Lock Him Up"), I've had ample time to reflect on the trajectory
of moral decay, from past to future. Driving
it all is a perverse impetus of psychology, one that seems as sure and reliable
as a force of physics. This impetus is greed.
Although "greed" is usually applied to
wealth, as in the myth of Midas, it has a broader definition. The American Heritage Dictionary offers, "An excessive desire to acquire or possess more than what one needs or
deserves." And Webster's, similarly,
has "excessive or rapacious desire."
Trump's insecure psyche takes such excess to the extreme, unchecked
by guilt or fact, impelled by impregnable delusions of grandeur.
The epitome of greed, its consummate embodiment, is
an individual wholly enslaved by it.
One hurdle to the spread of greed, and the designs
of those shackled by its Marley-esque weight, is the counteraction of entrenched
belief systems. Religion, for instance, instills
strict and venerable warnings against avarice of all kinds. Another protective barrier is the hallowed secular
ideology embedded in our Constitution. Common sense virtues, such as kindness, fairness
and graciousness, present yet another failsafe.
If people used intellect to ferret out
contradictions in their own actions, and the actions of their leaders, instead
of using it to obfuscate and self-deceive, we'd be in a much better place. Any legitimate scholar of history, however, will
point out our susceptibility to dogma, prejudice, denial and superstition. Modern psychologists add concepts like confirmation bias and cognitive dissonance.
Research demonstrates that conformity is relatively easy
to implant at a deep cognitive and perceptual level. Contradictions go unseen, superficially
dismissed.
Back to Sid, he is skilled at pointing out
the hypocrisy of Christians who follow Trump.
He has become adept at writing darkly humorous lampoons. Every time we meet, he hands me another sheet of paper. Lowering my cardboard placard to my shins,
I read these short yet pungent proclamations out loud, right on the green. Their style is a blend of carny barker and burlesque,
an attempt at outlandish description of a man almost immune to hyperbole, an egotist
known for his garish vices. Another of
Sid's targets is the obsequious fascination of Trump's priggish followers, and hence the focus on the religious right.
Sid and I often ask each other a question that has
become almost rote, shaking our
heads in a way \that has become sadly familiar: How did the devout and principled worshippers
of Jesus get twisted around to praise a
man who is the utter opposite?
If greed is the antigen, and its resistors, like
religion, are the antibody, how does greed prevail? Theorizing with Sid (in our informal yet somehow
efficacious way) the answer has been etched deeply into my neurons. That answer is this: division.
By "division" I mean simply the old 'divide and conquer' strategy.
Create an in-group and out-group, thereby fracturing the whole and
co-opting one of its parts to demonize the other.
Trump sows division through dog-whistles in his speeches
and Twitters. The inundation is endless,
the repetition incessant. Month after
month. Year after year. It goes back at least to the start of the Birther movement. No compunction slows the orange-haired fire-eater
down as he not-so-subtly preaches hate. His obsession for attention saddles him
with a bottomless itch, stoking a razzle-dazzle of flummery, sophistry, perversion and lies.
Deconstruction of his facile appeal to the 'good old
days'--Make America Great Again--yields a mixture of racism, Islamophobia,
homophobia and sexism. In short, Trump
pitches the glory of patriarchy to white US citizens. The price of buying into this image? Obedience, adulation, hate. Obedience to the nativist movement. Fanatic
praise ofTrump. Hatred for those who are
not in the in-group.
Sid says the corrective is education, starting out
with young children, and I agree. But
there's a catch-22. To educate properly,
you need to elect the right leaders. To elect
the right leaders, people need to be educated properly.
Republicans under Trump, spineless lickspittles who have accepted his dark falsehoods, have no reason to support open-minded, critical thinking or scientific
consensus based on experimental method. Their legislations,
adjudications and executive orders reflect as much.
So, the truth is hard to face. It is devastating. Yes, greed and division are winning. They have co-opted the belief systems of a
large number of Americans. The Good Samaritan's
kindness for a stranger has become, under the spell of Trumpian metamorphosis, 'kindness for a stranger who is
white like me'. Refractory in their support of Trump, evangelicals
see no contradiction in their embrace of a crass bully whose own behavior is
the antithesis of the Sermon on the Mount.
If you look at global politics, Trump-types reign everywhere, accompanied by the herds who follow them. The
motive for the herds, in many cases, is cynical and venal: privilege gained by oppressing those who aren't
in the ruling party. In other cases,
where the dictatorship has ramped up to full god-mode, the herds have
little choice left. In North Korea, being part
of the in-group could mean the difference between eating or starving; a
relatively stable life or one in a concentration camp.
Where does fear fit in? I've had plenty of time to reflect on this
while holding my protest sign. Fear is
another force of psychological physics.
It is even deeper than greed. It
is greed's driver. It is obedience's
driver as well. Fear, though, is not
necessarily a bad thing, and at times is wise and necessary. What it comes down to is how you handle
your fear. People like Trump would have this force bind you to them, make you a mouthpiece for their agenda.
Most of all, what I've learned standing with Sid is that I am tremendous lucky. I was born in a place where human rights have been somewhat honored, although weakly and unevenly. I've come to greatly appreciate my freedom of speech. Part of the reason I stand on the corner these days is to savor this gift, knowing it is a fragile one, denied to most human beings. It is a gift that could soon be taken away.
Most of all, what I've learned standing with Sid is that I am tremendous lucky. I was born in a place where human rights have been somewhat honored, although weakly and unevenly. I've come to greatly appreciate my freedom of speech. Part of the reason I stand on the corner these days is to savor this gift, knowing it is a fragile one, denied to most human beings. It is a gift that could soon be taken away.
"Greed doesn't have to win." The phrase takes ink readily enough. Sort of like, 'Love triumphs in the end'. The reality, though, is that greed often
triumphs. It has condemned many people to
lives of poverty. It erects cruel,
unjust hierarchies. It establishes
ignorance as a foundational massif. Indeed,
the US has often installed puppet dictators in third world countries, dictators at least as diagnosable and vicious as Trump.
After fifty-five years, it sometimes feels
like it would be easy for me to give up; to concede that we are all pathetically
selfish; to hold nothing but contempt, as Trump does, for the human creature as
petty and vile. What gives me strength? Honestly, sometimes I have no strength. But other times ... For a start, maybe just the fact that there are people who have ideals and fight for them. Maybe
that's enough. Any ethical act that challenges an unjust system is an extraordinary manifestation,
given the prevalence of tyrants and punishment. Chrysanthemums of shining behavior and noble philosophy spread their glowing seeds, even if,
individually, they are snuffed out. Sometimes these seeds find purchase. The Civil Rights Movement. The Women's Movement. The advancement of LGBTQ. The UN Declaration of Human Rights. A budding Earth Awareness. And yet it is easy to become disillusioned because change takes time, while we individuals are prisoners of the suffocative moment.
Simple things. The simple fact that many people endure for equality and human rights, regardless of the odds, sometimes risking their
own mortal safety. Whatever
happens, wherever we are going, maybe that's enough.
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Tuesday, April 3, 2018
Competence Versus Impotence
Emotional competence (EC) is a relatively new and evolving
concept. It overlaps with
"emotional intelligence" but emphasizes learning instead of aptitude. In basic form, EC is a capacity to deal with
emotions in a healthy way. I employ it in the heavy duty, practical sense used in the mental health
profession, where psychologists, therapists and counselors struggle to protect,
maintain, and regenerate themselves, sometimes even flourishing, while they work
face-to-face with people besieged by woe.
In this context, EC takes on heroic proportions. Practitioners, who typically see multiple
clients over the work week, can be easily triggered. A client's ordeal might impel unwanted and intense
reminiscence, unsealing a therapist's wounds.
Death. Abuse. Suicide.
Accident. Obsession. Addiction.
On and on. Any similarity in a
client's story can be a stimulus. So can
body language, whether subtle or intense.
Or clothes or jewelry. Something
physically small yet soulfully titanic, like a bruise in a certain place, might
catapult a therapist through turmoil and time.
To remain empathically engaged in the workplace,
both validating and caring, while also aware of ethical boundaries, therapists must
avoid some psychic pitfalls. Projection
and externalization, which involve scapegoating, are in this category. So is repression, hiding the truth by locking
it away in the unconscious. Let me take
a moment to distinguish these defense mechanisms from suppression. Suppression means putting one's feelings
aside for a while.
Emotional competence utilizes suppression as part
of its skill set, while avoiding the totalitarian mechanisms, which are components
of what I call emotional impotence (discussed more below). As they are definitive components, I want to
elaborate on them. These totalitarian
mechanisms, such as repression, create walls in the mind, blind spots in
perception. Not facing the truth means
not facing traumatic pain in a healthy way.
Instead of catharsis, a release of positive motivational energy, there
is distortion that generates disgust, fear and hate.
The unacknowledged pain cries out to be heard. This results is a worsening cycle. Walls lead to more walls to hide from the pain,
more 'compartments' in the psyche. Addiction
or fixation can result, as these 'patch' and distract from what is lurking below,
unacknowledged and outraged. The classic
symbolism of a maze-like haunted house with a vengeful ghost very much applies.
To do their job, and sustain themselves, mental
health professionals must face their inner
pain. They find and validate their
ghosts. This is courageous, a journey to gain better understanding that nurtures
a liberated way of perceiving and being.
This is the path of emotional competence. It offers freedom in the sense of an open, inquisitive,
adaptive mind.
An essential component of EC is heartfelt sincerity. A deep, longitudinal candor. Therapists strive to investigate and express their
feelings in relation to any issue along the daunting scale of an entire life. New experiences, talks with colleagues,
research, and personal breakthroughs (which not uncommonly come from therapy
for the therapist herself) are all part of a quest for psychological and
philosophical growth.
Some terms associated with emotional competence are
self-care, self-knowledge, self-acceptance, ethical awareness and
mindfulness. Emotional competence is not
so much a unitary skill, such as riding a bicycle, as it is a mode of
being. Since life is everchanging, it is
not something that can be truly mastered.
However, EC engages with the meaningful, the salutary, the
profound. Ancient greek wisdom, Gnothi Seauton, translates simply as
Know Thyself. This is not simply rationality. It is a matter of locating rationality within
emotionality. A marriage of intrapsychic
aspects. The haunted house, its rancorous
compartmentalization, is replaced by comity in celebration--of life, its
journey, its miracles, and the self as centered in these.
Emotional competence leads to universal compassion. It is consanguineous, in this sense, with
many great religious or spiritual practices. Such compassion, a great underlying Love, induces neither self-abnegation
nor self-aggrandizement. The egoistic/altruistic divide merges. There is a balance, in a
way, but it is more like an equilibrium, a dance. One of the hardest lessons for therapists to
learn is self-care. They are often such self-abnegating
people that they burn out for no other reason than that they give so much yet regenerate
so little. When emotional competence connects
with universal compassion, it doesn't solve all problems or engender enlightenment; but it does underscore a quintessential point: to sustain good care for others, you must care for
yourself. The inward/outward dance across the exquisite terrain of life is
ongoing, a life that is inherently about relationships.
I've grounded this discussion in the
mental health professions for a reason. EC
is not just for secluded mystics. Maybe it
sounds fantastical and otherworldly. But
EC is not only attainable, but also necessary and practical, especially within the business
of healing. Indeed, a primary purpose of
therapy is to facilitate emotional management, so clients partake of EC as
well. Feminist consciousness raising, or
the simple 'letting go' of mindful meditation, are samples of other routes
outside the profession.
You might say, "The larger culture is totally
lost to this way of living." And
there you would be completely right. That
is part of why EC might seem so alien and impossible.
However, there have been plenty of radical changes
to our culture, accelerating as we rush into the computer age. One example is women gaining the right to
vote (and since then other advances, like #MeToo). So
it is worth asking, What if people were acculturated into emotional
competence? What if cleansing perspectives were instilled in us, starting from birth?
The task seems daunting . Where we are today? Stymied in a consumerist, egotistic culture. The system feeds off self-doubt,
insecurity and belittling competition. Gushes of ads inundate us, ads claiming that our self-worth depends on what we
buy, what we own, what we consume. Those
who eat beef at McDonalds are, ipso facto, of a 'higher' status than the global
majority. Those who wear certain jeans
or sneakers attain yet another rung. Owning
a Mercedes Benz is a major leap. The
hierarchy of toys and envy proceeds all the way up the condescending ladder. If you think about it, the marketing industry bullies us. We are body-shamed constantly, especially women. Status-shamed. Health-shamed. Relationship-shamed. Ours is a crass, material, juvenile collective
consciousness that demeans humanity in the early 21st century.
Riding the fear-wave of Trumpism, things have
become, if not more despicable, then more obvious. It's about
who you can swindle. What you can get
away with. How much you can abuse others. How much you can gloat.. The USA, obscenely
wealthy after WWII, initiated a wrestling match between two worldviews: greed and indulgence, on one side, and the social virtues that shepherded people
through the Great Depression, virtues such as humility, charity, and
thrift. Given the current political theater
of fear and hate, its colosseums of cruelty, it is hard to deny that greed and
indulgence have utterly won.
This brings me back to emotional impotence. EI epitomizes a complete inability to deal with one's
emotions in a healthy manner. It is a disordered
state athwart purification. Instead of
self-acceptance, it dwells in self-loathing It demands a gargantuan dishonesty. The defensive, vulnerable swagger of a middle-school mentality. Bullying. Bragging. Intractable envy. Fixation on conquests
and toys.
As a diagnosable narcissist, with a hole in
his heart that he will never face, Trump represents our country to the world. Insatiable insecurity harnesses him
to insatiable need for attention. His
weapons of psychological warfare are repression and scapegoating. 'Truth' ("alternate facts") is what he needs it to be. He is never wrong. What is wrong is the other, the object of fear
and hate. Immigrants. Mexicans.
African Americans. Liberals. Feminists.
Anyone who threatens his ego. His vituperative invective knows no bounds (see my previous blog entry, "Moral Cowardice").
We are all trapped in Trump's excruciated, abysmal place. It is the place where white nationalism is the fixation and addiction of a very powerful man, head of the mightiest military in the world, a tyrant with tens of millions of avid followers. It is a place where this white nationalism is his means to seek infinite and unconditional worship. A Red Queen's race.
We are all trapped in Trump's excruciated, abysmal place. It is the place where white nationalism is the fixation and addiction of a very powerful man, head of the mightiest military in the world, a tyrant with tens of millions of avid followers. It is a place where this white nationalism is his means to seek infinite and unconditional worship. A Red Queen's race.
The authoritarian coin has two sides. Trump is not alone in his emotional
impotence. At this desperate juncture, dragged
down to a national nadir, a hate-infested dysfunction, it would seem that only
therapeutic techniques offer any serious hope.
At the very least, emotional competence provides a means of personal ascent. And yet maybe it can do more. Maybe it can uplift entire communities, and
then, with snowballing traction, salvage the nation.
Owl
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Owl
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Wednesday, February 28, 2018
Moral Cowardice Syndrome
In the movies, the norm is the fairytale. Good and evil are clearly defined,
and the anti-hero is obvious. To make it
easy, there is usually a mea culpa. The
anti-hero revels in being bad and says so.
If not, their acts are so blatant and extreme that no doubt remains. The motive is crystal clear, something petty
and narcissistic: lust, envy, a
personal grudge, power. The villain accepts and even wallows in this lack of virtue. If they do happen to object, the denial is so thin that the audience scoffs.
Enter Donald Trump. We all know reality is more complex than the
movies. Or do we? Because Trump embraces Disneyfication. Over the past few years, his oratory has woven casuistic
strings to tug people like puppets. Trump
takes the black-and-white template of childhood fears and imposes it on reality. There is a good side
and a bad side, nothing in-between, and he is the champion of the good. He has seduced tens of millions of people to
look at the world this way.
The
momentum is still on his side. False
visions can spread by accumulating and offering power to a select group. Even the most amateur historian knows this.
I want to make it clear that Trump is egregious or
evil. Actually, it is enough for my
argument that his actions and words, viewed as a whole, promote things we
consider egregious or evil. Things such as
sexism and racism.
Furthermore, the evil of Trump's actions is
obvious from a reasonable point of view. No one without psychological blinders
could deny that he is pushing white nationalism. This conclusion has been argued many times, many
ways. I'm just going to accept and meme it:
MAGA = MAWA.
Trump is the villain. But, as I will elaborate, he deviates from a fairytale villain in that he absolutely denies he is the villain and, in fact, calls those on the other side the villains. At the core of his great darkness is a colossal dishonesty.
Trump is the villain. But, as I will elaborate, he deviates from a fairytale villain in that he absolutely denies he is the villain and, in fact, calls those on the other side the villains. At the core of his great darkness is a colossal dishonesty.
I can now make some points about what I call moral
cowardice syndrome. Moral cowardice is (a) promoting
evil in ways that are obvious from a reasonable view, and (b) claiming that you
are the good one and that those who oppose you are the evil ones. Not just a little
evil, or partially evil, but rather completely evil. Full-on Disneyfication. Apply endless adjectives like repulsive,
reviling, disgusting, and so on. The cruel rhetoric of the moral coward is ceaseless.
In fact, this harangue and abuse of
those opposed to the moral coward is itself a terrible sickness and obsession, an immoral way of acting. Another aspect of moral cowardice,
then, is (c) ceaseless, obsessive, specious,
spurious, grandiloquent rhetoric to bury what you are doing even from yourself and to coerce others. This anti-reality of utter abuse is one of
the most abhorrent parts of the syndrome.
To emphasize, such rhetoric is abuse. It is sheer bullying. Right now, everyone in America lives under an abusive roof at the political level, the level that steers our country and, in effect, everyone in it.
Those reasonably opposed to the moral
coward, those being viciously attacked, are honest and ethical. They see the hate-mongering, stereotyping and
effigy-building for what it is, a mental disorder resulting in a raw power grab.
Not so ironically, then, moral cowards not only promote Disneyfication, they match the ugliness of the fairytale villain's motives.
Claiming you are fighting for certain ideals, such
as freedom, while in fact pushing for fascism, is cowardice. Following a leader who does this, accepting--no, worshipping--that leader's false narrative, is cowardice. To paraphrase the Bible, Woe unto them who
call evil good. Of course, this is useless
as a curative tool. Presented with such
a statement, the coward simply claims that their opponents are the ones calling evil good.
There is no way that logic can reach someone who
has embraced a full-fledged moral cowardice.
So, I add yet another component, (d) the coward can no longer see that
they are perpetrating evil. In a sense, the
coward has sold their soul by fracturing their mind into a severe compartmentalization. Such compartmentalization is the antithesis
of freedom.
Add to this the ability of the demagogue to fill
hearts and minds with twisted emotions that are, in effect, psychic chains. So, (e) the moral coward is trapped,
subconsciously, by twisted emotions such as hate.
In conclusion, villains who admit to evil, like those in the movies, are little threat to society as a whole. Their actions are horrific
to the audience. They are relatively easy to spot and therefore neutralize. The true threats to
society, the worst of the worst, are those locked in the iron maiden of
moral cowardice. I say "iron
maiden" because the syndrome torments those it enshrouds. It pulls the debauched soul into an abyss of us-vs-them,
blinding and binding them. The coward sits in the darkness of this abyss, chained, while claiming it is light.
There is no worse defeat.
The grip gets tighter as moral cowardice grows
stronger. The vector is toward a country
like North Korea. That is the road we
are on, herded down painful miles of collective transformation by Donald Trump, the great Coward. We are on a journey of fear and delusion.
Hopefully the concept of Moral Cowardice (MCS) will help the resistance. A force of darkness is easier to deal with once it is classified and understood.
Hopefully the concept of Moral Cowardice (MCS) will help the resistance. A force of darkness is easier to deal with once it is classified and understood.
If history is a guide, things are far worse right
now than you and I think. In other
words, we all need to fight against Trumpification, but even if we do, right now, with all our strength, we might
get crushed.
Still, as Elie Wiesel beseeches us in Night, we should try.
Still, as Elie Wiesel beseeches us in Night, we should try.
Owl
Friday, January 12, 2018
Against
[I was unable to access this account for months. Below are some posts written during that time.]
This is a one-hundred word story I wrote.
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Against
It was the worst day of his life, a profoundly sad realization. People said that the truth set you free. But truth was pain. A sudden, immortal guilt.
He wanted to be like those at the top, the world leaders who sculpted awareness to their own needs. But he could not. Truth made you a slave to your conscience, not a master.
He looked out at the narrows, tottering on muddy feet. The tidal pull was fierce. The entire ocean struggled to breathe. Selfishly, he threw the red cap into the crosscurrents, not waiting to see it float or sink.
This is a one-hundred word story I wrote.
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Against
It was the worst day of his life, a profoundly sad realization. People said that the truth set you free. But truth was pain. A sudden, immortal guilt.
He wanted to be like those at the top, the world leaders who sculpted awareness to their own needs. But he could not. Truth made you a slave to your conscience, not a master.
He looked out at the narrows, tottering on muddy feet. The tidal pull was fierce. The entire ocean struggled to breathe. Selfishly, he threw the red cap into the crosscurrents, not waiting to see it float or sink.
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Yule Reflections
[Originally published on December 25, 2017]
This is my first Christmas alone. It's not so bad. Hermit mode may become my norm, if society survives long enough. In any event, solitude affords me the space to express from the depths of my soul, in ways that socializing does not allow. It is a place where I feel most confused but also most alive.
This is my first Christmas alone. It's not so bad. Hermit mode may become my norm, if society survives long enough. In any event, solitude affords me the space to express from the depths of my soul, in ways that socializing does not allow. It is a place where I feel most confused but also most alive.
As alluded to above, humanity is quite close to thermonuclear war. The head of North Korea is a paranoid, narcissistic dictator. The same is true in the United States (though Trump is not a full dictator as of yet). Both leaders use fear and hate to herd the masses. Their method? The stark simplicity of a binary ethos: we are righteous, the other side is essentially evil. It is an historical tactic, one that readies the population for war and motivates the soldiers to kill without qualms. It is a tactic that has demeaned and debauched the human condition for millennia. It has led to all kinds of slaughter and infernal cruelty. Hatred and fear for those on the other side of a stark ethnic divide. It is an addictive condition. One that gravitates, and at some point accelerates, toward the infliction of genocide.
Figuratively speaking, to be ready, even eager, to kill a whole demographic of people, such as Muslims, is to worship your own god of hate. It only adds to your utter failure that you claim to champion the good.
As I've said many times on this blog, unless we transcend Manichean tactics, we will not be able to weld the great power of recent technologies. Misuse of said technologies will destroy us.
Why do people like Donald Trump rise to the top? Absence of a conscience helps one appear confident. Combine such immunity to guilt with an utter conviction that you are always right. That it is your destiny to win. Add a certain skill at rhetoric, especially concerning the manipulation of those prone to fear of 'the other'. Add an anti-intellectual platform of us-versus-them. These factors lift a person like Donald Trump. He deceives with ease, a mere game for him, while climbing up rungs of pettiness, rancor, and tragedy to achieve the throne.
Conditions were ideal for this "malignant narcissist." A fertile field of resentment and bigotry was already in place. Angry white males, traditional hierarchists, know-nothings, racists, nativists, patriarchals and supremacists rallied to the call, not so subtle, in the motto, "Make America Great Again."
In one of the most pitiable displays of ethical failure in American History, perhaps in the course of human civilization, the Republican leadership bowed down. It was an act of submission that epitomizes the decline of the American empire. They sold out for the most venal of reasons, to maintain personal power and avoid political loss. Their short-term strategizing went so far as to delegitimize the USA as a moral leader in the global community.
Figuratively speaking, to be ready, even eager, to kill a whole demographic of people, such as Muslims, is to worship your own god of hate. It only adds to your utter failure that you claim to champion the good.
As I've said many times on this blog, unless we transcend Manichean tactics, we will not be able to weld the great power of recent technologies. Misuse of said technologies will destroy us.
Why do people like Donald Trump rise to the top? Absence of a conscience helps one appear confident. Combine such immunity to guilt with an utter conviction that you are always right. That it is your destiny to win. Add a certain skill at rhetoric, especially concerning the manipulation of those prone to fear of 'the other'. Add an anti-intellectual platform of us-versus-them. These factors lift a person like Donald Trump. He deceives with ease, a mere game for him, while climbing up rungs of pettiness, rancor, and tragedy to achieve the throne.
Conditions were ideal for this "malignant narcissist." A fertile field of resentment and bigotry was already in place. Angry white males, traditional hierarchists, know-nothings, racists, nativists, patriarchals and supremacists rallied to the call, not so subtle, in the motto, "Make America Great Again."
In one of the most pitiable displays of ethical failure in American History, perhaps in the course of human civilization, the Republican leadership bowed down. It was an act of submission that epitomizes the decline of the American empire. They sold out for the most venal of reasons, to maintain personal power and avoid political loss. Their short-term strategizing went so far as to delegitimize the USA as a moral leader in the global community.
And of course there is the potential for WWIII ...
Many pundits have remarked on the horror of going to war with North Korea. From what I've seen, the focus is on what will happen to South Korea and possibly Japan. The potential death toll is stated as being in the hundreds of thousands. Sometimes it rises into the millions. What is missing from this morbid calculus is one simple factor: the launch of a single nuclear weapon would be incredibly destabilizing. Uncertain rulers in other places would be inclined to push their own red buttons.
China and Russia, for instance, have already indicated that they will attack the United States if we attack North Korea first. That's World War III right there.
Given the phenomenon of chaos that would ensue as a result of any attack--a phenomenon commonly referred to as the 'fog of war'--how could any side be clear on who launched first?
It's that dire. Christmas, December 25, 2017.
Kim Jon-in overlords a hell-on-earth of totalitarian mind control, backed up by Nazi-level concentration camps [1]. Donald Trump has been called a "malignant narcissist" by scores of highly accredited psychologists. Twenty-seven of them co-wrote a book to warn us [2].
This is the world in which I find myself, Christmas, December 25, 2017. It is a human-crowded planet on the brink of holocaust and fire. The ruler of the mightiest military on Earth is insane. He is inflexible even in the face of obvious empirical truths. He cannot adapt. In his mind, he is always right.
Christmas, December 25, 2017. If war doesn't claim us, there is always human-caused environmental collapse. We are in the midst of a mass extinction event. Global warming is unprecedented, quicker in effect than the rhythmic Ice Ages. Of course, Trump denies its existence and mocks those who agree with the international scientific consensus.
I open pages on the internet (itself a quite new invention) and see large areas of India and China saturated by stygian smog. I see Venezuela, recently a 'first world' country, chained to misery and malnutrition. I read about Jakarta, home to 30 million people, sliding more and more into the sea.
That's just a sampling from one week of headlines.
Christmas, December 25, 2017. Despite all this, believe it or not, I am happy.
I've been grappling with the heaviest of issues for decades. I struggled to earn a PhD in applied ethics. I published almost a thousand poems, many of them the equivalent of prophetic rants. I battle ignorance in the world and within myself, usually to little avail; and yet sometimes I glean a speck of insight or catharsis. My life journey--in its stupidity, stumble, and seek--has wandered to find some themes of beauty, joy and goodness. Omnipresent themes in the fabric of nature. Themes reactive to the dark.
"What if this present is the world's last night?" To answer this, I would say that love soars in so many ways, has showed us so many paths to paradisiacal futures, even if they will not be ours to take
Reflections On Ignorance
[Originally published December 9, 2017]
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The following is dedicated to #MeToo, the platform
employed by so many brave women to speak out. The nascent movement marks an uptick on the moral graph of US history, one that
will hopefully endure as a new standard, even as it elicits a higher level of
national justice and a widening florescence of conscience.
This blog has often railed against institutionalized denial The sort of denial that infects the American
psyche in relation to sexism, racism and other forms of oppression. From a psychological perspective, it is
mind-boggling to observe the entrenched, willful ignorance of the nation. Emotionally, it is heart-wrenching, agonizing
and isolating. Feminists challenge an
epidemic of violence and lies. For this
straightforward and brave honesty, they get ignored, passive-aggressively
goaded, punished or attacked. The
problem is like an unseen elephant in every room. Rape, domestic violence, child abuse,
harassment, coercion, stalking, street-taunting, they happen all the time, if
not to you then a friend, colleague, relative or lover,. But no one wants to hear. Men especially are badly and pitiably
lagging. It makes me ashamed to be a
man.
It is obvious that they-who-hide know what's going
on. They know, even while claiming the
opposite. Maybe this knowledge is
subconscious, but it exists. The
'objectivity' of bureaucratic condescension and derision is, in fact, a case of
knowing while pretending not to know.
One of the most common tactics of they-who-hide is to cherry-pick certain
individual cases while refusing to look at the larger picture.
Sexism has an invisible, subliminal, deceitful,
insidious aspect, one that is dynamic, couched in an adaptive ignorance. This ignorance is a great challenge to any
open-minded activist. It forces a mighty
frustration on those who would seek the good.
It is easy for this frustration to slide into hate. Feminists are human. To deal with hate in a healthy way is
incredibly hard. It is a virtuous feat,
one far too rarely validated.
As Donald Trump has demonstrated in his deranged
way, hate can be seductive and magnetic. Hate, wielded by a dark leader, pulls
people into blind passion and locks the doors of critical thinking. Donald Trump's followers go that route. But feminists, seeking to dissolve the power
of ignorance, rather than reinforce it, must avoid that path at any cost.
This is not to say that feminists don't feel
frustration and even hate. They must
strive to form very different relationships with those
emotions than people seduced by demagogues.
In this sense alone, aside from the rest, feminist activists face a huge challenge. The moral strength required to fend off
destructive hate cannot be overstated.
Confronted by the stonewalling ignorance of patriarchy--and all the
violence and wrongness that ignorance cloaks and perpetuates--it is so very
hard to keep frustration from bursting into a froth of spite, and from there
descending into a state of cruelty beyond reason.
Feminists struggle--with great difficulty--to
nurture their ethos and caring while dealing with the pain of their moral
awareness. Again, this is tremendously
hard. And, again, it is little rewarded
or even acknowledged as a task. In
defense of their own sanity, a feminist might step back from a personal
perspective. Go scholarly. However, it is quite possible to step
back in the wrong way, to succumb to a kind of bureaucratic 'objectivity'--the sort of 'objectivity' that is not
reasonable at all, but rather obliterates personal concern and surrenders to
the status quo.
Indeed, our justice system (USA), with its own
'objectivity', fails to see the obvious:
the ubiquitous blight of abuse, derision, dismissal, assault, rape, and
harassment.
When challenging sexism, whether through protest
or scholarship, it is important to appreciate its versatility. When we think of ignorance, we often think of
a flock of sheep. Sheep = dumb. The association is almost automatic. But it is also highly misleading. As I've written in the past, ignorance is
smart. It maintains and regenerates
itself, often through new frames and slants.
It swims in the steady flow of mini-arguments and memes presented by
politicians and media manipulators.
Ignorance contains specious arguments, prejudiced
appraisals, contumacious verisimilitudes.
It includes a hate-fear dialectic.
The fortification and maintenance of sexist ignorance is a mighty task,
a central task, of a male-ruled culture.
It needs to co-opt all cognitive layers of the brains it saturates. Ignorance is not so much about not seeing as
it is a means to entrench 'not seeing' as an unacknowledged norm.
Even the physical senses, studies show, can be
co-opted. Hence someone can see two lines
as being equal, when in fact they are of very different length. Subconscious filters are
vital to the interests of ignorance. Deep within the synaptic pathways--that is, by far, where the primary battle takes place.
The power of ignorance shapes civilizations. Accepted expressions of art, music, science,
religion and philosophy mold minds. One
generation programs the next. Thinkers
and artists rise to prominence because they satisfy the gatekeepers of the
status quo. Genius usually supports,
rather than subverts, what those in power authorize. Such co-opted genius may be zealous and
direct; or insidious and passive, a simple failure to address injustice. Pleasuring and mollifying the masses--a
lotus-eater effect--is at least as important as is the direct reinforcement of
patriarchal ideology. Pleasuring is a
seduction of diversion, whereas direct reinforcement is a legerdemain of
casuistry.
What does it mean to confront ignorance? It means facing a mental power, a political
patience, a confrontational stamina, that far exceeds your own. Ignorance is, in effect, a commodity for
those at the top. It is something
manufactured that pays dividends. A way
to control the masses. The investment is
protected at the Faustian cost of corrupting both society and soul. The process is addictive for those in
power. It becomes habitual, as well as
stressful and desperate. A failure to
properly manufacture ignorance could make the masses to turn on you. Or, perhaps worse, your conscience rises from
its ashes. What more painful than the
realization of your life's purpose as malign?
To conclude, confronting sexist ignorance is a
tremendous task, one carried out by courageous feminists, those who are continuously
tarred with ridicule and threat.
Feminist bloggers receive floods of invective. Graphic depictions of their upcoming murder and rape. To deal with this constantly, or even slightly, is to stare the darkest, most raw side of humanity in the face. It is, in a sense, to witness an archetype of Evil in action. Because it is so hard and courageous to face such total darkness--and tangible physical risk--many feminists eschew their websites and seek other
routes.
Again, the fury that targets them is torrential. Beyond scary. Welcome to the USA, early 21st century.
Again, the fury that targets them is torrential. Beyond scary. Welcome to the USA, early 21st century.
Sometimes, however, seemingly out of nowhere, even
during the darkest of times, there is a miraculous shift. For those of the greatest and yet
least-rewarded virtue, those feminists who have challenged the system all their
lives, these rare moments come only after a soul-grinding journey of conflict,
pain, and fortitude. Indeed,
such special people often don't live long enough to see the blossoms of
positive change that they helped to seed.
For all of us, there is the following inspiration
to be had from the #MeToo movement. Even
when we don't think we're making a difference, we well might be. The initial rumblings of seismic change take
place below society's collective mental surface. Only afterward do they manifest consciously.
This quote, from a recent op-ed on #MeToo,
reinforces the point:
We are seeing an example of how social change often (and increasingly) takes place. Advocates of a cause can push for a long time with little apparent effect. Then, in a historical blink, what seemed incredible becomes inevitable. Over a period of years, this is what happened with the same-sex marriage movement. A type of inclusion that initially appeared radical and frightening became an obvious form of fairness to a majority of Americans.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/no-country-for-scary-judgmental-old-men/2017/11/23/4faa93de-cfb2-11e7-81bc-c55a220c8cbe_story.html
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